"I've spent $40,000 on shoes and I have no place to live? I will literally be the old woman who lived in her shoes." ~ Carrie Bradshaw
My home has always been my sanctuary. A place of comfort and refuge from the fast pace of life. It's the place where I have sleep-overs with my little niece and host cocktail parties for friends. It's where I read books that I can't put down, while snuggled in my favourite chair. It's where I have a good cry when I need to and where I spread out my craft supplies to lose a Sunday afternoon to creative flow.
My home is many things to me - each one as important as the next. It's always been essential to me that my home represent my spirit and my personality. Not content with four white walls, I have always tended toward the bold and creative when it comes to the decor of my homes. Past incarnations have included warm yellow walls with white furniture and black accents. I loved the yellow so much that it made it onto walls in four different homes of mine, each time with a new twist. The yellow was happy and invigorating - reflective of me in that snapshot in time.
Many friends have asked me over the years how I find my inspiration. Well, that's the fun part. I look for and find it everywhere. Magazines, nature, jewelry, television, fashion, and my memories and moods all inspire me.
"An interior is the natural projection of the soul." ~ Coco Chanel
My current apartment is calming. Again, reflective of who I am and what I need at this point in my life. It's a small apartment and I knew from past experience that with small environments you need to be cautious about too many conflicting colours. There should be flow from room to room if you want to create a calm environment.
Choosing the main colour was purely by accident. I had painted a wall for my niece and nephew behind their bunk beds. The top half was bubble gum pink for Emma and the bottom half was turquoise blue for Jack. The blue perfectly matched the ocean theme of the kids' room. But as I looked into the paint can at the beautiful colour of the sea I was also reminded of the blue of a Tiffany box. Could it be sophisticated enough for an adult? Clearly!
Around this time I was also devouring design magazines and pulling pages of things that grabbed my attention - colour schemes, furniture, clothing, travel destinations. Whatever I liked, without giving thought as to why, became part of my inspiration file. When I began to examine what I had amassed, there was a clear theme: turquoise! Even Carrie Bradshaw's apartment makeover in the Sex and the City movie reflected my new found favourite colour.
So I took the plunge into an ocean of turquoise blue! The plan was to paint a single accent wall and lived with it for a little bit while I decided if it was for me. Well, it was love at first sight and now the blue is on many walls, along with accents of apple green, white furniture, and hits of black to anchor the rooms.
"A house is not a home unless it contains food and fire for the mind as well as the body." ~ Benjamin Franklin
A few years later and I am still in love with my home and my colour scheme. I tweak things occasionally and I am currently considering tackling painting my bathroom. Oh, what colour to pick?! But my apartment is perfect for me - a balance of calm and sophistication, reflective of what I need to feed my spirit and soul.
So how can you find inspiration to make your house a home that reflects your personality? Here are my top tips:
* Create a vision board or idea file: Pull picture from magazines of things that inspire you. Don't edit yourself - just gather what you like. Once you stop to look at what you have, you will likely have a theme in terms of style and colour.
* Don't let trends dictate your decor: A home that's all your own shouldn't look like a designer show room. Is orange the "it" colour but you hate orange? then forget about it and move on. The most interesting and warm spaces contain elements of you - perhaps some travel photos that you took last summer along with the quilt that your mom made for you. If you love it, then it works!
* Don't be afraid of colour: So many people are terrified of colour. I am not the first person to say that a gallon of paint is a cheap and cheerful way to put your stamp on your home and that's because it's true. Try just one wall if you are just not sure. And if you don't like it? Paint over it. My front hallway has been numerous colours.
If colour is just not you, then embrace that. Although I would never be comfortable in a home in shades of white and cream, I have seen some amazing examples of this. If that's your thing, then go for it!
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Don't spend a lot on trends: Trends come and go. Avocado green was big in the '70's. I bet all those people who invested in colour coordinated kitchen appliances regretted it once the 80's hit. Check out spots like Home Sense, Urban Barn, and Target for inexpensive but on-trend accessories to lend some flair to your home.
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Look in your closet: Still stuck on what colours you should go with? Open your closet, check out your jewelry box, and sort through your makeup. Chances are there a few hints here!
The most important tip of all is just to be true to yourself and have fun!
Kristin
P.S. This is dedicated to my mom, my very first design inspiration who has always been creative and never shied away from a bold statement (black accent wall, anyone?).
P.P.S. My favourite design resources are Style at Home and House Beautiful magazines, "domino: The Book of Decorating", Pinterest (create your own inspiration boards online),
www.apartmenttherapy.com and the lifestyle blog
www.cupcakesandcashmere.com